Rut - 2021

Yesterday, our trees were still bright with color, even some red appeared, rare this year, mostly on the sumacs and not the maples. A brisk wind caromed through the valley - east to west, west to east, south to north, north to south. Came morning the trees were bare. Mostly, the maples stayed yellow this year instead of turning red as they do normally. Too much rain, no frost is what the weather pundits up here say. The bare trees, I must admit, fascinate me more than the others. Certainly, the autumn colors are exquisite, and, come summer, full grown trees proudly puff out their great, green chests and take in the sun. So, there is beauty, and there is pride, but is there mystery? To gaze on a winter forest with an endless array of bare trees and twisted limbs - on and on they go on forever -  and they may well be there forever. Eternity? Got a better example?

Winter has been stalking us for weeks. I am insulating windows and caulking cracks. Generators are charged, more wood is on the way, a tank filled with oil, lanterns in every room. Get out the Under Armor, fleece, flannel, and cleats. At least, the tics will hibernate, and there won't be any tiny pests dive bombing your inner ear. 

Right now, nearing November, it seems quiet out there, but we are ready - as if any of us are truly ready for the next six months of snow and cold. And yet. Have you ever seen the full moon over a bed of fresh snow? The quiet beauty lowers one's blood pressure to the point where one can put one's feet up on one's desk and simply stare out the window. No guilt. No worries. No fear. No nothin'. As the great Jackie Gleason would say, "How sweet it is!"

There is a rub. This time of year things are unpredictable. A two hundred pound stag with a ten point rack can suddenly stampede out of the brush and total your car. It happened to me on Rte. 28 at night driving home. All I remember seeing were antlers aligned with the hood ornament. That's all. Antlers. Big, thick beams. Whump! Babe Ruth smacking a mattress with his Louisville Slugger. Bumper to solid flesh. A direct hit. A jolt from nowhere that totaled my car and luckily didn't kill me. The power and placement of that hit sent that deer flying back over the roof. I never saw it alive. Normally, things look smaller in death, but not this bruiser. He was a monster (trophi di tutti trophi) one rarely seen and deeply desired, but he simply could not keep it in his pants, and it killed him.

It's the rut. Testosterone takes over rendering male deer stupid silly, not unlike fraternity brothers with a keg. Normally, this most cautious of animals is alert to every nuance of its environment. Not now. The only thing they want in life is a quick hook-up - names don't matter - and they will die to do it. Literally. Really, really die. There is no #MeToo movement in the local whitetail population. Does simply stand by while the bucks make fools of themselves until the biggest fool wins.

This means there is a great deal of death around here now. I don't mean hunting season where, agree with the activity or not, what is taken by locals is not wasted. The local hunters enter woods they've known since childhood with a great deal of knowledge, respect, and common sense. I'm talking about roadkill, an ugly word, loaded with disrespect and disdain for what was once a living, breathing creature of grace and beauty, too many of them beside roads that only a few years ago saw blissfully little traffic and now see too much, thanks to our valley being labelled "a destination place" in expensive magazines. More often you don't see the torn flesh, just the body lying there.You are not close enough and you are not likely to stop long enough to see the glazed eyes, the limp tongue. It could be asleep. These are the ones I wonder about.

My friend, Josh, who lives in the mountains of France, recently sent me this quote from Jeremy Bentham: "The question is not can they reason, or can they think, but can they suffer?"

I wonder about those that lie by the side of the road not yet dead but dying. Do they know they are dying? We do. We who walk upright. Do they? They can anticipate danger where we cannot, but can they anticipate death? Do they know regret? What do they know? What do they feel? Physically, it is difficult to say since animals have astonishing reserves of strength, an ability to cope with injuries that would level an eighteen wheeler. Rarely, do they even express pain, and then not for long. I know deer have consciousness, but what is that for them? They can't think the way I do. I don't have their consciousness, and they don't have mine. What is waiting to die like for an animal? What do they sense lying there? Do they experience being alone? White tail are not generally herd animals like elk and impala. Are they aware of familiar smells: the scent of an off-spring or mate, the gum smacking aroma of freshly planted roses, the scent of gun oil in the woods that heralds the start of hunting season? If it rains does the rain give comfort? If they land in the shade is there any relief? Is there any relief at all? Are they waiting to die, or do they just die?

Been A Bad Ol' Booger, But He's Come 'n' Gone - Prologue - 10-10-2021

 I'm working on a new novel. #4. I never thought I would. Obviously, I was wrong. Since it's Autumn, I think this prologue is apropos. It's a few pages, but only a few. I might publish short excerpts from time to time. See whatcha think.

        “Been A Bad Ol’ Booger, But He’s Come 'n' Gone”

Fall and Poppa were both born by the same breath. Fall was our favorite season. We braved the freeze of winter, the muck of spring, and the sweat of summer until we got to Fall. It was Fall when Poppa was most alive, and, because he was, I was, too.  Poppa was really grandpop, my grandfather, but not any more. I called him Poppa early on and have done so ever since. When I was little I rode Poppa’s back through a blueberry jungle in August. It seemed I was always riding Poppa’s back somewhere, through something, around something, the world from Poppa’s back. 

I never have been a big fan of Summer. Born and raised in a cleft in the Catskill Mountains when they were still home and hearth to dogged farmers tilling fields whose main crop was rocks.  This was way before so-called hipsters from Brooklyn donned their L.L. Bean backpacks crammed with gorp and discovered we lived here. I don’t dispute that summer in the mountains is lovely – fulsome creeks fished by blue herons and eagles, thickets shielding deer, partridge, and bear, Golden Rod and Purple Astor, so many shades of green I couldn’t count, but, still, for me, mercifully short. It’s a season that can’t be avoided and therefore posits the obligation to hungrily suck it dry of all its pleasures right down to the last hot dog on the grill and that August mountain thunderstorm right above your head. I do, but I cannot tell a lie: that first chill wind and the changing colors soon after – that’s what I wait for. Maple syrup, pumpkins, and the palette a hardwood forest offers in the Fall – maple, ash, beech, oak, black cherry, walnut, chestnut – an opera of shades – basso profundo – coloratura - bronze, orange, red, yellow…I know from firsthand experience that  Alaskan hardwoods are small and stunted. There are no beauty queens on the tundra. It’s so cold that leaves and roots become necessities. Wood, the stuff of trunks and branches, is a luxury. I look at the mountains across my valley and it’s like looking at a bouquet. “Here y’go, young lady. This one’s for you.” 

Every year of my life back then, and even now sometimes when I’m back, me and Poppa kicked through the cover of dry leaves that had fallen to the ground when we walked through the woods along Hunter Creek one October morning. I remember a young spruce, maybe three feet, sparsely but gracefully branched, decorated by wind and gravity, with brightly colored leaves that had fallen from other trees. It was not the burning bush, but it dazzled. Our mountains are part of the range that goes south into West Virginia and Kentucky, all the Appalachians. Oh, my, the aroma of fresh, rich mud – better than morning coffee – that came from those kicks. Life was in those kicks. Even the sound – that crispness – that snap, crackle and pop - of leaves so casually scuffed aside! To walk through that woods in the Fall was to experience transcendence.  I’m not talking religion here, but I know the feeling when it’s there. It envelops me and whispers to me, though I never quite catch the words. What was that, that something I can almost remember, a sad thing and a happy thing, not birthday party happy - astonished happy - and not terrible sad but longing? Feels both at peace and a piece of the puzzle, tranquil and untroubled, and yet something I urgently needed to know, just out of reach. How could it be that with every breath I was both aroused and at rest? How could that be? I remember leaving the woods of that childhood at dusk, and above me the moon was full and bright, serene, imposing: Buddha. How could that be?

It was Fall, first day of school, but we had plans. Poppa knocked on my door when it was still more than an hour from daybreak. 

“Bacon, sunny sides, hash browns, hot chocolate. Hit the deck,” Poppa hawked from the other side of the door. “Dress warm.” 

I had my warmest clothes all laid out, layers of ‘em. I felt like the Michelin tire man, but it was gonna be cold out there. I love being out in the cold but I don’t like being cold, you know?

In the Spring you smell fresh flowers. In the Fall you smell dead ones, crisp and sharp. The season has a tang to it. Poppa showed me a wild apple tree. A macoun. His secret. Nobody else knew where it was, and how it got where it got even Poppa couldn't say.   

         

“They talk to each other, y’know, not like we do, but think of all those tangled roots mingling underground, connecting like telephone cables. Information gets passed on through. All these oaks? They weren’t here when you were born. Logged out. But all this time they’ve been migrating down the mountain, and look at them now. Maybe they send out pilgrims to scout new territory? Like anybody would.  ‘Course, I’m no botanist, so wha’ do I know?” he said. Poppa said that after a lot of things - “Wha’ do I know?” But he knew just about everything, and, if there was a speck of something he didn’t know, he’d find somebody who did or look it up or just go and figure it out for himself. He’d pick up a bronze leaf and tell me oak, a red leaf, maple, a yellow leaf, birch, a different red, sumac. Wild berries had been gone for a month, but pears and apples were in, and a pumpkin patch he planted just for me, tiny pumpkins and really big ones, hundred pounders, a patch the size of a swimming pool. That patch made my Halloweens even more magical. Every Halloween we’d choose the second biggest and carve a monster mug, scary being the operative word. The first biggest, the biggest biggest of all, we saved for when I was Cinderella and needed my coach.

With a bellyful of breakfast, RuAnn stuffed egg salad sandwiches into the pockets of our red and black wool hunting jackets.

“Aren’t you supposed to be in school?” she asked.

“She is in school,” said Poppa.

“I am in school,” I said.

“I didn’t ask you,” said RuAnn

“Yes, you did,” I said.

RuAnn shut the door behind us, called the dogs to join her, and dove back under her quilts. 

We set off over the back field towards the tree line and a special spot Poppa had picked out a few weeks earlier. all by the light of a slender sickle moon. He had his ancient shotgun with him, turn of the century, Remington Model 1889 12 gauge double barrel. Worth a fortune to a collector. It had been his father’s and his father’s.  He could’ve afforded a new one, but why? This old thing could damn near shoot itself. He might admire the craftsmanship of British shotguns, fine metal married to finely grained wood, delicate engraving, light and whippy. But, still, Poppa wanted one good reason, “Why?” He could be cantankerous. Once he was quoted in an interview as saying, “If you don’t own a gun and you don’t own a book, what good are you?” He actually said that. It was the caption under a picture of him grinning like he’d won $5,000 a month from Publisher’s Clearing House. I think he was joking.

No matter how hard I tried not to make any noise, withered grass sheathed in ice crackled underfoot. Poppa had taught me how the Mohawks walked while hunting, slowly, setting the whole foot down gently, one single gradual movement instead of heel-toe-heel. My feet still went crunch crunch. Poppa wore moccasins and made no sound at all.

Up in the blackest sky I’d yet ever seen, the moon had shrunk to a slice. The stars looked as if the popcorn machine exploded. Tingles of light cluttered the sky. I got thinking about the wandering bands of early humans.  How much of their lives were spent staring up at the stars? It was the best quiz show in their universe. Stories flowed. Ideas flourished. Mathematics was born. Directions were set. 

I don’t know how he did it but when we crossed the tree line into the woods it was so black I thought I went blind only Poppa didn’t seem bothered one bit. I knew Superman could see in the dark but I didn’t know Poppa could, too. Off to the side somewhere over the hogs were already on the move nuzzling for chinkapins. Might be some wild ones with ‘em. Poppa beckoned me keep quiet. We didn’t want to set them off and spoil the whole thing. Pass on by. Shhh. Poppa veered off a bit. I could just see an old maple tree, thick like a pillar on an ancient temple.  You couldn’t miss it, trunk warped and twisted all the way up with large boles like warts. Something so sweet once came from that tree. Poppa pointed to the ground. I sat down, my back against that scratchy bark. Poppa cut brush and fashioned a blind, then sat down next to me. He put his finger to his lips, took three long, slim bones from a leather pouch hanging from  his belt. Call bones. Thin, graceful, harp-like. Call bones he’d had since he was a kid. Cup them to your lips and talk turkey. 

With the shotgun in the crook of his arm, Poppa arranged the bones in the palm of his hand, cupped them to his mouth, and what came out was a puk puk puk, a sweet chirp almost impossible to hear. Puk puk puk. I listened hard but all I could hear was quiet. Puk. Puk. Kinda like,  tickle tickle. I think Poppa mighta winked at me. Not sure. The next one just fluttered out, some sweet puk puks, lilting chirps, and tra la trills. A symphony of bones. I listened hard. The silence was thick and firm. Then, oh my God, I heard this boom boom boom coming towards us. Boom boom boom! Heavy wings beating on the ground. Might’ve been Godzilla. Poppa gave a final  puk puk trill cluk, and the most humongous turkey on earth busted through the brush smack into the clearing in front of our blind. Stout as a sergeant major. He came to a stop, stood at attention, and looked around. Poppa gave it one more lick. That big dandy fanned out his bodacious tail - a thing of beauty if you ever see one - an emperor  - danced and pranced in a circle, and made right for us. The shotgun jumped to Poppa’s shoulder and fired. That bird went down like a running back clotheslined by a linebacker. Whop. Down. Poppa didn’t move. One wing fluttered then fell still. Might’ve been the wind. We waited for the echo of the shot to fade away and then sat still some more. It goes so quiet in the woods when a hunter -  man or beast - takes prey. Something about that silence says you must sit still for a while. I got up when Poppa got up, and we walked to where the bird had fallen. Poppa knelt down to check the bird’s spurs, big ones, long, sharp, a good two inches.  He didn’t say one word for a bit until, with as much reverence as I’d ever heard him, he said:

“Been a bad old booger, but he's come and gone.”

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What Were We Talking About? Oh, Yeah.

There is no God but reality. 
To seek Him elsewhere 
is the action of the Fall

Sorry, folks, it's on my mind. Can't help it. That stint in the hospital was some kind of journey. Is this the future or just a glitch? I am aware that the hook could come at any time without so much as a knock on the door. From here to there in a blink. No time to dawdle. You're just snatched. 

So, what did I learn? Nothing. I learned Nothing. I could have died, they told me, and, for all I know, I did because it was... Nothing. An awareness of Absolutely Nothing At All. No awareness of awareness. I had no idea  what had happened or what was happening. I had no dreams, no visions, no celestial music, no eunochs playing lutes. no light at the end of the tunnel, no tunnel, nada, zip, period...Nothing, and totally unaware of Nothing. Unaware of being unaware. Just Nothing. Not even a zero. Not even. Bleak is a term we use but that's just a collection of letters we humans concocted on our own. In the universe, there was no such thing as bleak until we codified it. No such thing as bleak or any of its synonyms. Only endless process. Still, how to comprehend Nothing being Nothing At All? A Nonoccurrence. A neverness. It's not even darkness. It's beyond darkness. No wonder we make things up.  

N'Duh. Sorry. I just realized I've been talking about classic existentialism, Sartre style. Beckettstyle. An empty universe devoid of anything but itself - morality, religion, faith, algebra, curiosity, the twenty-third psalm, treasury bonds, debt, bitcoin - everything - all of it made up. Yet, here we are in it, free to choose our own way, to choose absolutely, without guidance, and that can be frightening, can't it? It obviously was to Sartre. And Beckett. "Nothing to be done." So why not do it?

True story. Some years ago, Jamie spent a week at the bedside of a friend who was dying, and, in fact, did die while Jamie was there. This had been a profound experience for her. Her beliefs are strong and deep. They are not mine, but they don't have to be. I have ways of my own. Throughout the week they prayed and sang and reminisced and shared and chanted  prayers from different traditions and their own traditions and ones they made up...

        "Jamie, Jamie, Jamie," I said wanting to comfort her.

        "You want me to stop talking."

        "Just for a minute. This is important."

She assumed that "I'm listening" posture of hers.

        "What?"

        "When my time comes, please, no songs, no prayers, no chanting, no trinkets, no blessings, no benisons, no Kaddish, no 
davening. Just bring me a bucket of fried chicken."

       "Vanilla milkshake on the side?"

        "Large, please."

Golden Age? Yeah, right!

Who are you kidding? I'm not thrilled with getting older. I still cannot grasp that I am, and neither can you. Are we supposed to be happy? About what? Hooray, my bladder is "compromised"? Are we supposed to cheer? Leapin' Lizards, my stool looks normal? Good Googamooga, when people with expressions of pity gently but firmly take my arm and ask, "May I help you, sir?" Terror strikes. "Don't touch me! I have leprosy!" Do I really look like I need help? Really?

The rocking chair was invented so old folks could set on the porch rocking back and forth dawn 'til dusk to keep the blood moving. Well, I'm here to say, I'm no more ready for that rocking chair than I am for the electric chair.

The face that looks back at me now from the bathroom mirror is not the same face shaving off his first moustache with Ivory soap and a single-edged razor blade that's not even made anymore. Moustache? Might as well call a trike a Harley. A dust mote barely visible through an electron microscope. I was sixteen then. I'm not sixteen now. Big diff!

I read about all the pluses of getting older but I have yet to find one that fits. Senior's breakfast at Denny's? Free bus rides to the petting zoo? Ten percent off shower stools at Target? Half price Tuesdays on selected items at Dollar General? Golden Age? Yeah, right.Try pig iron. What are the advantages of getting older? Tell me. I'm listening. It's like the Chinese torture of a thousand cuts, one by one until it gets to your heart. Your family stands on the shore watching helplessly as you fight the riptide, remorseless and relentless, taking you away from them, taking us away from each other. That riptide is following its natural course, and so are you. I cannot conceive of myself as nothing. How to bear it? I don't believe in Pearly Gates. I don't believe in fire and brimstone. All that stuff happens while you're still alive.

So, quick! Where's the solace already? There isn't any if you think about it, so don't think about it. There will be sadness. It will never go away, but now is not the time. So, if now is not the time, what's the time for?

I want to die well.

We know how our loved ones are going to feel because we've been there, by this time, more than once. It's not my wish to make it harder for them while I'm still here, so I need to tweak my whereabouts, suss out the trouble spots. Weed out the niggling glitches and ancient, nagging sorrows. Lingering resentments. Social detritus. Bonehead  mistakes. Ditch the chum. Go for the prime rib. Much tastier, and easier on the gut.

No more time to sweat the small stuff. Leave 'em laughing. "Take my wife, please!" Saunter instead of hike. Chew instead of bolt. Sip instead of slurp. Spend more time spending more time. Stand outside under the night sky staring at the stars, seeking patterns. It's a different world, but it's still yours. I have no answers. I've stopped looking for them.The circumstances of my life have delivered me to this place. Now, where to go from here?

I want to die well.

Stephen Foreman, I say to myself, you are one lucky guy. You get bumps and bruises, some broken toes and a broken nose but nothing organic, mental stuff but nothing psychotic. You've escaped the worst of it. It's been rough at times. So what? There's worse. You're in a good place. Why's that? Because I say so.

Yep. Because I say so, not you.

Sixty years ago I wrote:

"This I know and only this, that I am given a life, a gift that only once I will receive, and I choose to wring it dry of all it's pleasures so that when I am wombed in death's certain eternity I shall not reflect in anguish that I have had but birth and death and nothing more."

Corny, I know. Words from my first play, many lifetimes ago, originally written and performed at Morgan. I was so young when I wrote those words. They just came out. I'm not even certain I knew back then just how determined I was, how, consciously or not, these words would shape the rest of my life. I knew the answer without knowing I knew it. My answer. The one best for me.

Way back up in our first meadow I planted a grove of trees. Our family grove. Each tree planted for a family member. One pear tree for Jamie and me. We gave birth to this life. The pears are small and hard but slice up well then add brie. An apple tree planted for Sevi Donnelly Foreman on his first birthday. It's flourishing now, three decades later, flush and brimming with sweet, crisp, hefty macouns. Take one. An exotic crab apple tree radiant with burgundy colored leaves and bright red berries the size of pearls. This one, Madden's, Madden Rose Foreman, our daughter with the auburn mane. The newest tree is an oak, planted for my grandson's first birthday, a white oak, already sturdy. Dorian Alexander. There are other trees, too - weeping peaseblossom, birch, another apple, a struggling cherry, but the family grove is at the center of it. I'm planning on planting two or three peach trees next Spring to shorten the distance between my son's tree and my daughter's. A wooden bench would be welcome, nothing exotic, no teak or tulipwood. Ash is on the way out. Local maple will do fine. The blueberries didn't make it through the winter, but that's no big loss since wild blueberries are all over the place. When I sit in the middle of that grove, everything makes sense. I won't be here, but it will.There are no words.

Four Months After The Fall - #4

 The really, really cute neurosurgeon (the one wearing heels) (O.K., O.K., so I have a little crush on my neurosurgeon. What about it?) She said the brain injury was healing remarkably well, surprisingly well. Hematoma down 50%. No need for more brain tests. No need to drill and drain. No need to see me again. I admit to mixed feelings on that one. I did not dodge a bullet. I dodged a nuclear bomb. Six months to normal I'm told. Assured. Maybe all those push-ups finally paid off. Uh, wait a minute. I didn't know I was normal when I was normal, so what are we looking at here? The "normal" normal or a New Normal? Do I really want to go back to the same old thing? And, if it's new, how can it be normal? This "new normal" business is like calling a used car pre-owned, pretending it isn't what it really is. 

"Mendacity", rails Big Daddy in Tennessee Williams', Cat On A Hot Tin Roof. "Mendacity!"

Lying there all those hours and days and nights, tended to and cared for by nurses, aides, technicians, cleaning staff, physical therapists, EMT's, kitchen workers, maintenance workers, clericals, and, yes, of course, doctors, too - more of them persons of color than not, so many immigrants or children of immigrants. Isn't it ironic that those very people - the ones we don't want as neighbors - those very people will be the ones caring for us at the time of our death?

The care was great. The food was hot. I'm getting better faster. I can almost remember my name and where I live.This crush I have on my neurosurgeon is not enough for me to make a special appointment to drain the blood from my brain, which we all agreed was unnecessary, anyway. Some balance issues but physical therapist teaching me how to train the muscles in my feet, so if I fall, I fall forward not backward. Neat trick. I keep forgetting where I left my cane, but I still remember the names of my children (at least, I did this morning), do not drool, and do not lurch when I walk. Wave when you go by.

More to come.

I hope.

Four Months After The Fall - #3

As he was dying,  Bob Lemond, my wife's manager, told me, "It's who you love that matters, not who loves you."  You can't (at least, I can't) spend a week in the hospital with a brain injury without thinking about "things". I couldn't walk without falling, so what else was there to do? So, I thought. I doubt I discovered anything new, but I did go deeper into a lifetime of wondering what everything was all about, why I'm here, why you're here, what happens when we're not here, what do I want my final thought to be? My idea of Hell is when, at your last breath, you are bitter, angry, resentful, carrying a grudge with you as you fade to black and enter whatever eternity is. When I awakened in that hospital bed, I had no idea how I got there or what I was doing there. Something surely had happened, but what? I was told I could have died. "You didn't see yourself," my wife and children told me, "It was horrible" -  a wake-up call, yes, but really one for me. I know I was late on the electric bill that month, but customer service couldn't have pulled this off in revenge. They have payment plans, for Pete's sake. I could not wrap my mind around what happened. I didn't believe it happened, could ever happen, To Me? Are you sure you've got the right guy? Wake up, boychik, it really really did. There were witnesses. I remember very little, hardly anything, and so I figured what could have happened? What could be so bad? Why am I on a stretcher being loaded onto an EMT truck? What I do remember, a snippet, I swear, was being in the emergency room with the neurosurgeon staring down. At me. She was tiny, wearing a white lab coat, and heels. I wouldn't lie. What the hell does it say about me when that's all I remember? My final thought is a cute neurosurgeon in heels? I need to do better than that. Much better.

Einstein claimed God was in the details. I thought about that and came to disagree. Nothing deep. I don't believe in any supernatural entity who keeps an eye on me. What I thought was,"Life is in the details." Look closely. Stay awhile. Inspect, examine, dawdle, wonder. My theory is if you stop and watch and wait and wonder, life is longer than when you rush through it. It goes by more slowly, and it's chock full. Take your time. Give yourself over. Examine the tiniest thing. Lose yourself. Yes, lose yourself. These things take time, and isn't that what we want? Time! "Be here now." Not my original idea at all. Many saints and sinners eons before me have said the same thing in their own way. Right this instant, out my window, I am watching summer turn to fall. Different bird songs. Pumpkins. Crisper air. What am I watching? Nothing changes except me. I slow down and search for color. It will be there whether it is now or not. 

There are people I love, people I have loved, people I may come to love, people I will never love. Those are the ones I banish. Those who have loved me are fun to play with. I enjoyed myself with many of them. Sometimes I even enjoyed them a lot, but what stayed me as I lay in that hospital bed were the people I have truly, deeply loved. Not too many. A few. What would I have done without them? Who else would tolerate my quirks and foibles, my corny jokes, my mistakes? Who else would truly cheer my victories? No ulterior motive other than sharing the pleasure of life at that moment in time.

And I love and have loved each one. The beauty of it is that each love carries its own feelings. Every season is the same and new. 

I don't want to look away. I want nothing more than to be here right this instant doing and seeing exactly what I'm doing and seeing.  

Four Months After The Fall - #2

Hey. folks, healing but not yet healed. I'm told it takes time. Believe me, I've had more fun. 

Stay tuned.